Duke Double Transplant Survivor

We’ve been really pleased so far with everything about Duke. Great people, great care.

I wanted to post a video that our Nurse Coordinator pointed us toward earlier, one that I hope anyone reading will watch. It’s a short clip (3min) from the CBS Evening News about a girl who was diagnosed with a disorder at 6 months, and who wasn’t expect to live a full life. She required a double transplant consisting of both lungs and her bone marrow, both performed at Duke. Quite something.

Take a look:


The bit at the end with the confetti is 5200, the Pediatric Blood and Marrow Transplant ward. After each child is ready to go home, they do a confetti parade with all of the parents, staff and other patients participating if they can. Several of Zoe’s treatment team folks are in this.

You can read more about this here at CBS. This originally aired on June 1st, 2010.

Liam’s Lighthouse Foundation

As we work our way through this, Michelle and I have given a lot of thought to how we might be of help to future families facing an HLH or similar diagnosis. We have not yet figured that part out. At this point it’s all we can do to manage this blog, which I hope will be of some use, and help our girls get through this. Hopefully we’ll see the tunnel’s end soon and can figure our where we can be of use.

One parent who is giving back and working for HLH awareness already is Michelle Schulze, who has created Liam’s Lighthouse Foundation.  Liam’s Lighthouse Foundation seeks to promote awareness of HLH, a disease that is far to poorly known among the pediatricians who have to diagnose it.

Without a quick diagnosis, HLH does enough damage that, even if caught eventually, can prevent a child from recovering. It is also what is known as an “orphan” disease, which means it affects few enough people per year that it escapes wide notice and, importantly, proper research.

Increasingly it seems apparent that HLH is not as rare as once believed, but because it goes undiagnosed or is diagnosed too late in many cases, it seems impossibly rare. HLH is fatal in 2 months or less if untreated, so it’s imperative that pediatricians become aware of the signs and symptoms to be sure patients get into the hospital for treatment quickly.

Please take a moment to look at Liam’s story and the Foundation web site to see how one family is working for increased awareness.

The Story of Zoe’s Birth

Zoe at 10 days old

Evan and I, like all parents, wanted to choose just the right name for Zoe.  We spent Thanksgiving with family running down lists of potential names.  Annaliese?  Natalia? Madeline?  Brynn?  Evan settled on the name of Zoe before I did.  But it became clear that Zoe was the right name for our baby and so we decided to name her just that.

We hung her stocking at Christmas in anticipation of her arrival.  She arrived the day before my birthday and in between two large snow storms.  I had been preparing for the big day working hard mentally to come to terms with the pain of childbirth.  I had wanted to deliver my first child without medication but lost my confidence to manage the pain during the delivery process and asked for an epidural.

Determined to have Zoe naturally I talked with several friends who had delivered naturally themselves.   It was doable and I had to figure out what was going to work for me.  Moving around, deep breathing and distraction were especially helpful.

Prior to going to the hospital Evan and I took some time with Maya to explain to her that Baby Zoe would be arriving soon.  We let her know that when the phone call came we had to go to get Zoe.  Soon after Evan’s mom went into another room and called Evan on the phone and Evan spoke where Maya could hear him.  “Zoe is going to be coming soon?  We need to come to get her now?”  Maya responded, “Bye, Mommy.   Bye, Daddy.”  Then she looked around and called out in a loud voice, “Zoooo-eeee!” as if Zoe would appear at any time.

In hindsight I guess she could have.  Evan called the nurse on duty to ask how long we could stay at home safely as I had been having contractions for most of the day but they had just settled into a rhythm a few hours prior.  The nurse spoke with the doctor who had delivered Maya and who exuded the calm that comes from delivering thousands of babies.  He said that we could stay at home  until contractions were 3-5 minutes apart.  Trying to stay out of the hospital for as long as possible we arrived for check-in when contractions were 2-3 minutes apart. Cutting it a little closer than we had  intended things moved along quickly from there and Zoe was born four hours later.

She was bright eyed and incredibly alert upon delivery.  When our eyes met I could tell she knew me instantly and we fell in love.  She took to nursing naturally.  And so began our relationship.

Zoe flew through her well-baby check-ups and her pediatrician was so happy with how she was doing.  Her color was great, she was calm and easy to soothe and she was a solid eater.  No weight loss issues, no problems with jaundice, etc.

Evan and I were so happy to have our family intact and healthy and talked of so many dreams of the future.  We discussed family trips, holiday rituals we wanted to establish, books we wanted to read together and movies we wanted to watch during family night when the girls were old enough.

And then that nasty illness moved through our household and the rest of the story is history.  And so here we are.  Very grateful Zoe continues to fight and very grateful we chose a name that means “Abundance of Life.”

Jeremy’s Story

Since I began keeping this journal, I’ve received a number of messages via  email and Facebook from other parents who have a child with HLH. Each time I find myself broken up by the experience of hearing about their child, so closely can I relate to what they are going or have gone through, yet I value each chance I get to hear from other parents.

I received another such message recently from Jun, and with his permission I’m posting the story he wrote to me about his son, Jeremy. I’ve edited it slightly for length and clarity, but the words are otherwise his. I greatly appreciate his and his wife’s willingness to let me share this, and his kind wishes and prayers for Zoe.

Jeremy’s Story

Our second baby was born on March 4, 2010 via a emergency c section. We named him Jeremy Daniel.

At the time he was born he was only 7 months old, they had to do a c-section because they noticed that his growth had slowed, and the amniotic fluid was decreasing. When Jeremy was born he had a full body rash that looked much like a German Measles rash. My wife was never sick throughout her pregnancy, except for the expected nausea and vomiting.

At first the doctors thought it was some sort of an infection. They did every test they could think of to rule it out, and all of the neonatologists and pediatricians were baffled with his condition. In addition to the rash, his liver and spleen were enlarged, and his lab levels were all low. He required a blood and platelet transfusion nearly every day.

By the third day after the c-section, his belly had become so big that they had to intubate him to assist his breathing. He had xrays, MRI, CT scans and ECG, all of which came back negative.

We were happy, and at the same time sad. Happy because his tests were negative, sad because they still couldn’t diagnose him.

Finally after a week, on March 11th, they came to a working diagnosis. A Hematologist/Oncologist took a look at the biopsy of the rash, and he noticed some Histiocytes. Based on that, and the symptoms, signs and the timing, he was almost certain it was FHL, the familial and primary form of HLH.

My wife and I are both nurses, but in our careers we had never seen this disease. The Hematologist explained the process to us and the treatment options. When the genetic markers were sent off to CCH, he personally handed them off to the FedEx guy. He was very optimistic throughout, and said he would expect Jeremy to improve after the first or second dose of chemotherapy.

We were working with several doctors during this process. The doctor who diagnosed Jeremy said this was only his 3rd case of HLH, and of them, only one survived. A second doctor, who had more experience, said this was her sixth case, but again, only one survived. I suspect they may have been talking about the same patient.
She was very hopeful though. She said as years have gone by, they’ve come to understand more about the disease and the treatment option. Now they know when to be aggressive, and when to be gentle.

We started HLA typing to determine who would be the most likely donor for the bone marrow transplant, and the stories from the other nurses kept us going. Being a nurse has it’s advantages and disadvantages. We hear more from the other staff, but at the same time we weren’t able to attend Jeremy’s first chemotherapy session because we were both sick.

The night of his first chemo session, he was still in the NICU. This was a first for them, and they didn’t have a certified chemo nurse. They asked a PICU certified nurse to oversee his treatment, but when they found out how small and how sick Jeremy was, all of them refused. Their reason was that they were trained to give chemo in pediatrics, not neonatal.

An older nurse was kind enough to volunteer to oversee his treatment finally. She even changed her work schedule to ensure that she would be working when his chemo doses were due. We met her the day after his first session, and we hugged and thanked her. It was then that we found out from her that she was herself a cancer survivor.

As time went on, Jeremy wasn’t improving as expected. After his thrid dose of chemo, the doctor informed us that all of his organs were failing, with the exception of his lungs. He even suggested weaning him off the ventilator. The determination was that he was unable to tolerate the chemotherapy. They stopped his Cyclosporine at that time, but continued his Dexamethasone and Etoposide to continue fighting the disease.

Jeremy’s doctor told us he was giving him a week or two to get better, and then would arrange a family meeting to discuss other options. He felt then that if he doesn’t get better, he wouldn’t get better at all.

The night of his fourth chemo session, we noticed Jeremy’s eyes were open for hours. This was the first time that had happened, normally he would have them open for a few minutes, then fall asleep again. He was looking at us, eyes turning side to side, looking at Mommy and Daddy. We noticed then that he was unable to move his arms or legs, and that he wouldn’t make a face or move when pinched. We talked to him, singing him songs. We asked him to give us a sign if he wanted to give up, or if he wanted to go on with his treatment.

After the chemo was complete, Jeremy’s heart rate and oxygen levels started to go down. They continued to drop until they were at zero.

My wife and I were in the room as it happened. They started compressions, but when the doctor yelled for a medication to restart his heart, I found the courage to say “Stop”, crying as I did so. This was the sign we had been looking for. My wife was in agreement — no more pain, no more suffering.

Jeremy Daniel gained his angel wings on March 24th, 2010 at 1:48am. He had a tough fight, and we always wonder had he been born full term if the outcome might have been different. We continue to grieve, and our first born child, who is now almost 2 years old, is our inspiration to keep going.

– Jun